Believe in love’s infinite journey – Inspired by Yogi tea

believe in love

“Believe in love’s infinite journey”.  This was the inspiration note written with my Yogi tea bag this morning, I felt it profound in many ways so wanted to share it, and to let love’s infinite journey flow even further from me to you also.  Pass it on 😉

What does this mean to you?  Love’s infinite journey.  And why do we need to believe in it?

To me, this means a million and one things:

Love’s infinite journey in that love knows no bounds.  It can travel to and through anywhere open to it; if everyone or everything is open, then it will fill up these spaces.

Love’s journey being infinite in that love, can never run out.

Love’s infinite journey in that we, our spirits, the watcher behind our eyes, is infinite.  This body may die but this physical manifestation isn’t the be all and end all; so be mindful of trying to hold onto things too tight in this life.

And believing is seeing, to believe in it is to be open to it.  Open to love.

Believe in love’s infinite journey, which starts with yourself.

 

Love and light for a sparkling weekend!  xxx

 

Ah – and thanks for Romaan for bringing my attention to the Yogi tea inspirations, namaste brother!  And thanks to Yogi tea for making them 🙂

Dropping the past – A Powerful breakthrough

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I’ve been so anxious to let people, potential clients and students in particular, know why I practice and teach yoga.  To show everyone how far I’ve come, so they can see how far they can come also; or in all honesty, maybe even still to receive a small amount of sympathy for my past woes.  Then I kept wondering why my past problems would keep recurring and getting in my way!  Simple logic explains why..

Thus finally, during my Reiki and Seichem training last week, my teacher taught me further to listen to how my words were still plaguing me.  She also then reassured me something I kept saying I knew; but now I am so happy I can feel it too.  It’s that I need to be authentically who I am NOW!  There is no need to justify or advertise my wounds to ‘convince’ people I’m genuine and can empathise with their pain; as all this will become apparent as and when it needs to.

You get EVERYTHING you ask for, in one way or another.  So make sure you ask for nice things 😉

Love, light and health to all x

5 minutes to a Happier, Calmer and more Content You. Fact.

Calmer more content and happier you

It’s been scientifically proven on many accounts that mindfulness and/or meditation can bring you to a happier, calmer and more physically and emotionally aware space; and it doesn’t even have to take more than 5 minutes a day.

In today’s fast paced and busy world it seems people don’t remember to take the time to breathe deeply and take a few minutes out for themselves.  However, by doing so, one can actually help to reduce and calm one’s own physical and emotional dis-ease.

It’s not like it’ll happen over night and it’s certainly on it’s own no replacement for current treatments or therapies.  But, by taking this this 5 minutes out and listening to yourself you can begin to see your own solutions to your stresses and dis-eases (be this seeking a doctor, healer, activity or other life change of some sort).

At least 5 minutes, each day is all it takes to get started; you can do it on the bus or while standing, sitting or laying anywhere you can.

Namaste, much love xx

 

 

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Why I’d rather read a book over a newspaper

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People,  keep saying ‘We need to keep up to date with what’s going on in the world’.  I agree, awareness and information is key.  But I disagree when it comes to what is shared via the mainstream papers and magazines and here’s why:

I don’t see a point to reading fiction, as in made up stories, when there are so many real life experiences and lessons which I could delve into and learn, be inspired by or have fun with.

To me, the mainstream papers and magazines are very similar to the made up stories you find in fiction books; except with a fiction book you get to choose the style of story you want to read.  Pretty much all the mainstream papers and magazines, the news, focus on negative and destructive stories, which seem to be intending to scaring people into believing we need identity cards, war, and plastic surgery; or, that we should work harder and longer, so we can afford newer and better cars or shoes.

Why would one want to inflict these kind of messages on ones self and wind up all depressed by thinking of death, comparing ourselves to people who appear to have more than us, and thus forgetting how totally awesome we are?  Especially first thing in the morning.  Instead, personally, I’d rather be celebrating life and all the amazing people, places, things and such in it!

If I do see ‘news’ I hope it’s information to share awareness about how I can help to make this world a better place for my family and children to grow up on; shining a light so I understand where I can be a better human; or telling me about the successes people are having in creating hemp plastics, healthier skies and happier homes.

 

I Choose life 🙂

Mirror me : Mirror you

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When you look at me what do you see?

Beauty, hostility, or someone verging on tranquility?

Because whatever is in you, is what you see in me.

How much simpler could it be?

We see the world through our own eyes, our perspective.  When I see beauty in you, it’s the beauty in me reflected through the mirror that you are; when I get angry with you, it’s really me who I am mad at.

Everyone of us is beautiful in our own special way, but sometimes our vision narrows and our perspective become unclear; filtering our this beauty, usually due to an unrealised fear.

Try it, when you’re in a good mood and happy with yourself, take a look around you and see how awesome the people in your vicinity are.  Then, when you don’t feel so hot, take another look around; and see if the judgement has crept in, with people seeming less than their average selves.  This methodology for awareness is how I know when I’m out of balance, i.e.  need to eat, rest or do something nice for myself; the world reflecting back to me what an ugly mood I’m in.

 

Be kind to yourself. xxx

What do You want to do?

What would you want to do
If you could do ANYTHING, what would you choose to do your bit in society?

i.e. imagine we had no limiting factors; how would you contribute to the society we’re creating together?

Everyone needs clothes, a house, plumbing, inventors to help us get progress, artists to entertain and liberate, carers, doctors, gardeners and farmers.  Mothers, lovers, chefs and discoverers, cleaners and writers; teachers and mechanics.  To name but a few.

I realised my intention a few years back, to be a health, happiness student and teacher (when I was in a very different place to where I am today).  Due to overcoming many my own struggles with health and happiness, I have a genuine passion to help others who also want to get past their struggles in life.  For me, what’s the point in accumulating all of this wealth in knowledge and love, if I don’t pass it on as my teachers have so generously exchanged with me?  It’s not been an easy journey, but everyday I feel more and more what excites me and what my intended purpose is.  It’s taken dedication, appreciation and a genuine love for the life I want.

But what would you (or do you already) do?!

If you can dream it.  It can happen.

 

Love x

Make-Up with Yourself

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I am a 29 year old woman living in London, and therefore of course I’ve worn my fair share of slap, sometimes too much of it.  On the rare random occasion, I still do decide to paint myself different.  It can be fun to change the colour of your clothes, hair, nails, skin, lips, lashes, eyes and cheeks from time to time?

For years I’d wear mascara because my lashes are long but blonde and almost invisible, use cover up on my spots and blemishes; and put blusher on my cheeks to help me look healthy again under the layers of foundation.  Finally, over the past year, between running out of mascara, being sick of touch ups in order to feel ready to do ANYthing and a lot of love and support; I managed to ween myself off applying my daily slap in the face.

Make-up for me was a bit of an obsession.  I needed a lot of love to help get through this past year, slap-less, to help me be able to get to know and love the skin I’m in (getting past everyone pointing out I looked tired and spotty at first).

Did you know most spots are caused by the body trying to expel toxins?  Ironic that we learn to cover our skin in toxic chemicals to try and make them go away!  This was a revelation that got me really thinking; why spend all this time and money and not make things actually any better for myself?  One other revelation was watching the skin of others around me.  Have you ever watched the colour changes in someone elses cheeks and lips throughout the day, when they get hot or flustered or are cold and brooding?  It’s quite beautiful!

Thus I implore you ladies and gentlemen; why put on a mono-tone covering, keep spending your hard earned cash and precious limited time in denying your true natural beauty from this world?!  YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!!  Let yourself shine!

 

Love xxx

Yoga, more than a physical affair

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When I first began practicing yoga I thought it was a purely physical affair. However, I later learnt I was wrong.  Ashtanga yoga defines the 8 limb path (Ashta = 8, Anga = Limb) for yoga as described by Patanjali who lived about 150BC in India and is still a world-renowned scientist. The 8 limbs of yoga each relate to one of the following:

Yamas – How you treat others, self-restraint through directing your energy, death of the ego.  There are 5 vows for Yama (non-violence, truthfulness, non-stealing, understanding sexual energy, and non-possessiveness)

Niyamas – Self-discipline, regularity and mastering your instincts.  There are 5 observances within Niyama (purity, contentment, simplicity, meditating on the self, and surrendering to the divine within you)

Asana – The postures we practice in a class to enable us to open up the body and to be able to stay in a steady, comfortable and blissful posture to aid practice of the following limbs

Pranayama – Breath and prana (energy) control, becoming more aware of the gaps between the breath to assist in coming into a state of no mind

Pratyahara – Moving attention inside, withdrawal of the senses to external distractions so we can deeper understand ourselves; the mind becoming fit for concentration

Dharana – Meditation, contemplation, singular focus with an uninterrupted flow of concentration (retaining concentration on one object)

Dhyana – Meditation, there is no object, only awareness, knowledge of the true self (contemplation)

Samadhi – Where the mind goes beyond the subject.  The state of ecstasy, where you merge with your focus point and feel a profound connection with all that is.

Practising yoga asana allows us to play out life on our yoga mat as the intertwined series of simple and subtle actions and events which all layer up to build a beautiful and multi-dimensional play. By breaking down these layers 1 by 1 we can then understand and feel how each individual part works as well as how it connects to the whole; thus illustrating to us how simple everything can be when viewed from certain perspectives. Many of the yogic texts say and I believe that we are on this Earth and in this Universe to live, play, learn, grow and love; inevitably to again return to the formless and therefore making it really important that we make the most of this life and conquer any fears or life-limiting factors we can to Live Our expression of Life as Fully as possible.

Yoga is for everyone to try, explore and play with; regardless of age, body shape or ability.

As you can see, yoga is more than a physical affair, it is a science which allows you to unfold the mind and go deeper than you could ever have imagined.

Gratitude as a state of mind

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How often do you notice how great things are in life, and say thank you?

Or, how often do you notice how shit things feel in life, and are thoroughly not thankful for them!?

It’s all too easy to get caught up in the mind and label a situation as good or bad, depending on expectations of what’s wanted in that moment of time.

I still flit between these 2 states, but happily, the state of gratitude, seems to keep growing.  This isn’t because I won the lottery or finally worked through all of my shit, but it’s because I got sick of being depressed about all the things and the lessons I cannot change.  Slowly but surely, my focus keeps shifting to see more of the positives in life, and aiming to express gratitude for them; especially when I’ve had a rough day.

Try it, when you think things couldn’t get worse, or when you wonder why the hell you’ve ended up in the shit; find points about it that you can be thankful for.  It’s hard, sometimes very hard at first, but over time, the shit subsides and you begin to see the point to the lessons you’re seeing.

What are you grateful for?  Write your own list, please share it if you like!   Below is a small list from my daily thanks:

  • Thank you for my bed, and all it’s warm and comfy bits which allow me to sleep soundly
  • Thank you for my family; including my husband, friends, parents, brothers and sisters and all the beautiful people who help give meaning to my life and keep inspiring and loving me, no matter how I feel towards myself
  • Thank you for my health and all the people, foods and products that nourish me 
  • Thank you to my home, for keeping me warm and dry and allowing me to have my little space of paradise in the hecticness of London
  • Thank you to my job(s) which help me to earn my living in this current society
  • Thank you to my winter coat, you’re very warm and much needed right now
  • Thank you for my shower, all hot and cleansing and awesome
  • Thank you for all the things I walk into and that trip me up, and my clumbsyness, as it’s in these moments I realise my state of unmindfulness and again refocus into the present moment
  • Thank you to all the random people who either entertain, show kindness or aren’t very nice to help me see these same things in myself
  • Thank you to the Scientific art that is Yoga (and Pilates) which has helped me to pull my head out of my arse and enables me to lead a more and more fulfilling life with every breath I take
  • And of course, Thank you to all my teachers and students who help to keep me on the track I most prefer and shine a light where I didn’t notice one previously

 

Namaste, so much love, and have a fun weekend 🙂 xxx

5 tips for achieving a regular practice

regular practice

Have you ever found yourself starting something and enjoying it, but then, letting it all fall by the waste-side in a hopeless mess?

I have, many times.  Thankfully it generally doesn’t happen with my yoga practice.  Here’s a few tips I use to help me reap the benefits of having a regular yoga practice:

  1. Make a consistent space in your diary.  You can find classes any time of any day (especially if you live in a big city), pick a time you can stick to for at least the next 4 – 6 weeks.
  2. Find a teacher who you feel good about seeing, and who guides you to a constructive, and potentially happier place during and after class.  There are many of us teachers; and if you don’t feel shiny, light and the desire to return then the chances are you wont; and thus it probably isn’t the right teacher for you.  Explore someone else’s class.
  3. Aim to attend at a studio that is relatively accessible/not too far out of your way; a 1 hour journey to and from class can be a right downer, and quite draining (unless you live out in the sticks and it might be quite a pleasant ride or less choice!).
  4. Eat appropriately around the class.  I.e. don’t fill up your belly (especially on meat or heavy, stodgy dishes) less than 3 hrs before class.  Some fruit or nuts are an ideal snack if you need something to keep you going in the mean time.  Keep it light.
  5. Have fun with it!  If it starts to feel like a bore or work activity it’ll soon lose it’s majic and charm.

All in all, lighten up with your practice 😉

Much love x